• @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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      52 months ago

      I actually do have a wizard robe and hat (they were separate gifts from people who know me well) but somehow I’ve never worn the hat during sex.

  • @Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    142 months ago

    For me it’s not the words but how they’re delivered. Anything that sounds like the fake nonsense done in mainstream porn is an instant turn-off.

  • nerv
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    112 months ago

    Dirty talk just doesn’t work for me. I find it demeaning. Nothing against those who enjoy it but it is a direct turn off for me.

    • @Empricorn@feddit.nl
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      92 months ago

      Oh yeah? You probably just haven’t been downvoted hard enough! You wanna get de-federated, you filthy comment whore! (I apologize, I’m bad at this)

      • nerv
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        42 months ago

        I don’t really think that qualifies as dirty talk. That is just being rude.

        Potty mouth! You should learn how to properly behave!.

        (Yeah, I am obviously bad at this as well)

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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    62 months ago

    I met a couple of gay cis men who called their anus “pussy”. Instant turn off.

    (I don’t talk about trans women, enbies, femboys or what. Just random cis guys)

  • nerv
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    I understand that the thread has mostly lost its heat but nonetheless I’m going to leave this here. This my understanding of dirty talking, as it should be: respectful, teasing, uplifting and full of promise.

    I write as a hobby and dialogue is something I enjoy writing, as I’m often able to have things said through the characters in my stories that otherwise I would never be able to muster the slightest ounce of courage to utter.

    Picture the following dialogue between a couple that has already hooked up but is now actively socializing, taking part of a salon game along the lines of “truth or dare” or “never would I ever”. At this point, things have become somewhat raunchy, so the mood is up.

    “You consider yourself good in bed?”

    “I don’t keep score cards.”

    “You should. I’d give you a solid 8 after last night.”

    “You were just as involved as I was.”

    “Really?”

    “From where I was standing, yes.”

    “Standing, sitting, knealing… you did propped up yourself for the task.”

    “I try. Thank you.”

    “Wanna try for the 10 a little later?”

    “How about an 11?”

    There is a lot of background missing but this is the couple teasing each other, whispering at each other, after someone asked if a person, who boasts constantly for having a lot of hookups, if they consider themselves good in bed.