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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • Ooh, that’s a great point, I bet you’d get a kick out of it! I don’t know why but I always just assumed gay guys didn’t need anything like that, but there’s no reason they shouldn’t.

    We really do, she’s helped me open up so much about what I like and want, and just being comfortable talking about it openly. And roughness is kind of a big kink of mine, I’ve dabbled here and there before but mostly it’s been stuff I’ve fantasized about and seen in porn or read in erotica. Opening up to explore it more for real is really exciting for me!




  • Definitely love for sure, I fell hard and fast for this girl, I never stood a chance! I’ve had plenty of casual partners for no-strings sex before, my first experiences even were with my best friend, nothing romantic there, just really close friends. It’s just that when I’m in a relationship, that always seems to just wrap everything up all together in the perfect package, I’ve never stepped outside that to explore consensual non-monogamy type stuff. I don’t have anything against it for sure, and I can see the appeal, I just don’t know how I’d handle it and I’m leery of windimg up hurting her or being hurt, emotionally speaking, if that makes any sense